My boyfriend wants to have ***?
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asked: My boyfriend and I are both Juniors in high school.
A long time ago my boyfriend and I decided to wait until marriage to have ***. We’ve been together for a little over a year now. He makes me so happy, I know he loves and respects me, as I do him.
But lately a lot of his friends have been having *** and telling him how fantaaaaaastic it is. So he’s been hinting that he wants to have *** and when I finally talked to him about it, he said yes he does. But that he would wait for me to be ready for sex, even if that took years.
He is a really good guy, and I know that he would never, ever, force me to do anything I don’t want to do or pressure me in any way.
But the thing is I DO want to have *** with him.
Ohmigod.
Yes. lol
But I don’t want to face the consequences of our actions.
I know I’m to young to have sex
And that if I had a baby he/she could hamper the plans I have for my future.
What should I do?
How do I NOT have *** with him?
Should I have *** with him?
Maybe we should just wait until we’re out of high school?
Thanks to everyone in advance
3 Erin
We’re both virgins who have not had any sexual relations [um...things before actual SEX] with anyone but each other
So no STD worries here.
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You should have *** with him.Life is too short
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stay abstonant (without sex) that way, you’ll know for sure that he loves you and when you guys get married it’s be SOOOOOOOOOO worth the wait
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If your ready have ***. But dont get pressured
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NOOOO!!!! GURL!!!!! dont mess up ur whole life just because of……..UHHHH!!!!! NOOOOO!!!!! i cant stant it when people do that!!!!!! and ur still in high skool???? NOOOO!!!!! marraige alwayz comes 1st!!!!
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NONONO!!!! DONT you could get pregnent (whawha HE would RUN AWAY!!! Ur the female so the baby is inside of you!!) You could Get AIDS etc.. Your 2 young NOT IN LOVE, worry about education, just cuz everyone is doing it don’t MEAN THAT UU HAVE 2 do it!!!
AND what do you WANT from ur life?? BEST OF LUCK!
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As you should know by now is there is a little thing called a CONDOM!!!. Have him wear one and you get some spermacid. Also, if you are commited to one another, then their are other forms of *** you can do without having ***********. Oral sex, manual *** (jerking him off), You could buy some ****** or vibrators, have him use them on you.
Again, this is, of course, how commited you are too each other. If intercouse can wait until you get out of school, you both will be happier for it and will be much more informed.